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July 10, 2018

Chai Latte Date - July 2018

     Break out a chai latte (or your favorite hot or iced beverage!) and join me for my latest life update post! I'm excited to share some more details and personal notes about life in Virginia. Happy four months to me in the most wonderful city and state!







     SUMMARY: Sweet summertime in Virginia.... oh my, so fun! So far it's been filled with lots of pool days, good wine, fellowship with my new church community, and visits from sweet friends from out-of-state. Two months ago, in my first Virginia Chai Latte post, I wrote that if my first two months here were so good, I could only imagine how much better life was going to keep getting. That is 100% true!! I am in such a sweet season of life right now- God is blessing me immensely each day.
     The only bad thing I've dealt with over the past couple months is my poor car. I drive an older vehicle (my first car from high school) and since I moved in March, it's had a lot of maintenance issues. Between March to now, I've spent over $1000 on fixing various things, and this past weekend in DC I damaged my back fender... so now back to the body shop! I'd love to save up for a new car, but with some of my other regular living expenses and a remaining school loan, it will be quite awhile before that can happen. #adulting
      Oh- one other thing that I can't remember if I shared on the blog. I finished paying off broadcasting school in May!! (If you're new here: I did a 10 month broadcasting school technical program in Charlotte after undergrad.) It's a huge financial weight of my shoulders to have that debt taken care of! Now just have to tackle the last bit of undergrad loans.
 



     HOME: LOVING my apartment!!! The complex has a really nice pool, and it's kind of become the gathering place for all of my friends from church to hang out at, on both weekdays and weekends! So so so much fun. I'm going to be sad this fall when it's too cold to keep hanging out there with people.
     Something else I've been loving the past couple months is having overnight guests! I've hosted friends from out-of-state three times in the last two months, and it's been a lot of fun. I am looking forward now to a few weekends of not having company, but already have a few visits on the calendar for fall!
     I'm starting to think about if I want to renew my lease next winter, or move in with a roommate or two to save money. I really do love living alone, but it isn't super cheap. More of my salary than I'd like goes to rent right now. If I had a roommate or two, I know I'd be able to say yes to a lot more costly social activities (and also pay off school debt faster and finally save for a new car!). So just something I'm thinking about.
     Normally I love watching TV at night after work, but I'm not watching many things this summer! Younger is the only summer show I've been keeping up with weekly. I'm sure when the weather gets cooler though I'll be ready to start watching all of my favorite fall shows again.



     WORK: Still enjoying my job! I do not take for granted at all that I both work in the industry that I dreamed of and went to school for, and on top of that work for a great radio company. I'm truly happy to go to work everyday- such a blessing! I've started taking on some new duties at work, such as helping our production director with some weekly tasks related to commercials. There are a few country concerts coming to Charlottesville this fall! Crossing my fingers I might be able to get tickets through work- that happened a couple times for shows at my old job. But if not- I'd definitely still like to go!



     FAITH: I mentioned this a little bit above, but this has been such a sweet time of life and God has truly blessed me! My faith is in a great place right now. I credit most of that to becoming involved with the most amazing church in Charlottesville. I've been blessed to go to good churches in past places that I've lived, but never have I ever found a church that I've connected with as much or found the best Christian community as the one that I attend now! Most of my friends that I've made in Charlottesville have been through church, and it's amazing! I'm also in a summer bible study through mid-August at my church- which has been a great way to connect even more.
     I am trying to remember and meditate on the fact that even though this is a sweet season, God will still be there and be present through difficult seasons in other parts of life. Overall 2016 and 2017 were very rough years for me- filled with a lot of growing up and even doubting God's plan at times. 2018 so far has been one huge blessing from Him, but I hope my faith will be as strong as it is now in the future when things aren't always as good.
   

    
     SOCIAL: Oh my gosh- so many fun things in the past couple months! I have made some of the best friends here in Virginia- and I'm still in shock at how quickly I've made friends here. This experience couldn't be more night and day different from Vermont! Most of the friends I've made are from church, but I've also connected with people through other means. I have plans with friends every single weekend, and some weeknights as well! Summer has been a blast, but I'm already getting excited for fall fun too. I joined a women's community group at my new church in late April- we are "on break" from our regular bible study meetings for the summer, but a lot of us have still been trying to hang out once a week on a weeknight to still have something to look forward to!




     ACTIVITIES: Lots of time spent at my day job and lots of time spent blogging on the side, as always! The main activity outside of work things that I've been up to the past couple months is spending time at the pool! I didn't have access to a pool in Vermont last summer, so I feel like I have an extra year's worth of pool days to make up for. I'm out there most weekends, and a couple weeknights too. I've also been trying to work out a few times a week, and have still been reading a lot. Summer is just a great time of year to enjoy a good book! With friends, I've been enjoying trying new restaurants, going to free concerts (there are SO MANY free concerts in the summer in Charlottesville- it's nuts!), a few weekend parties, and of course pool time.



     5 NEW VIRGINIA THINGS I DID:

  • Visited two more Central Virginia wineries (now I've been to 7!)- Knights Gambit and King Family. 
  • Had my first taste of Charlottesville nightlife downtown.
  • Attended three different Charlottesville free concert series with friends: Sunsets at Sentara (Wednesdays), Sunset Series at Carter's Mountain (Thursdays), and Fridays After Five (obviously Fridays)! 
  • Hiked to a hidden swimming hole and waterfalls. 
  • Spent my first holiday in Charlottesville- the 4th of July! (I was out of town for Easter and Memorial Day.)


     The next time I write one of these posts, I'll have finally been back to Charlotte to visit (!!!), and it will be just past my birthday and Southern Belle in Training's 6th blogiversary! Already looking forward to celebrating my first birthday in my new home state. 



     I took a break last week for the 4th of July, but Midweek Ramblings returns tomorrow! 



     God Bless,



     xoxo Annaliese 
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May 10, 2018

Chai Latte Date - May 2018

     Welcome to my first "Chai Latte Date" on my blog! If you followed along with my Post Move Update posts during last year in Vermont, the format of today's blog post will be very familiar to you! I really enjoyed writing those update posts last year- it was a time for me get more personal with y'all than I do in most blog posts, and writing them was even therapeutic for me at times! I wanted to continue that now that I live here in Virginia, but with a name change! I decided on "Chai Latte Date" - I want these blog posts every couple of months to feel like you and I are having a coffee or tea date (or in my case, chai latte date!) together, and catching up about life and everything that's been going on behind the scenes of blogging and my day-to-day life.






Photo by Meredith Sledge



     SUMMARY: Oh my goodness- what a wonderful first two months in my new home state it has been. Beautiful Virginia, how I love you! March-May 2018 has been a breath of fresh, warm spring air, literally and hypothetically! After spending the last year living in a place that I really disliked and just wanted to move away from, I still feel somedays like I have to readjust my brain to get used to the fact that I really am back in the South, and I don't have to move again anytime soon. I'm actually in a place that feels like home, and home to stay for as long as I want. If these first two months in Charlottesville have been filled with so much peace and happiness, I can't even wait to see what the first six months, and first year will bring! 



     HOME: I really like my apartment here in Virginia. This is my second solo apartment, and I like the layout of this one better than my Vermont apartment- it's definitely better suited for having overnight guests. My kitchen is a lot smaller in this apartment (about half the size of my last kitchen), but so far that hasn't really been an issue. I am also so excited to finally have a walk-in closet again after a year of not having one! I'm still organizing my closet to get it just how I'd like it, but I have lots of time to do that, and I love all of the extra storage.
    One really exciting thing about my new apartment that I've of course been sharing updates about on Instagram Stories is the Mama Pigeon (who I've named April) who made her nest on my balcony! As of this week, one baby bird is here, and one is still an egg. April and the dad pigeon (who visits a lot as well), are very protective of Baby and Egg so I don't see them often, but when I get glimpses of them in the nest I pull out my big camera! I can't wait until the babies are a little bigger, it'll be really fun to watch them. Having April's nest felt like a cool little "housewarming" present in my new place! 



     WORK: I am so enjoying my new job! Country radio is definitely different than CHR (Top 40) radio, which was my primary on-air role at my former job. But I am enjoying working in the country format a lot more than I expected! My new job has provided lots of learning and growth opportunities just in the almost-two months that I've been there, and I've definitely been challenged in my work, which is a great feeling and keeps things interesting. My new boss, Brian, is just a joy to work with- we have a lot of fun together and we are always cracking jokes!
     A big event that happened in my first few weeks at my new job was the annual two-day Radiothon. Radiothon is the annual charity event to benefit the local children's hospital (lots of stations around the country do events like this throughout the year for their local hospitals). Anyways- Brian and I were on-air for 12 hours straight (6am to 6pm) for our Radiothon at the station!! I had never done anything like that before- it was quite the endeavor! I was absolutely exhausted after the first day, but at the end of the second day I felt incredibly accomplished, and so proud of all of the money that my station raised to benefit our local hospital. (There were also free Krispy Kreme donuts for on-air staff on the second day, which was AWESOME! Haha!) I'm hoping that we will exceed this year's fundraising goals for Radiothon in 2019.
     I took a few months off from my Radio 101 blog posts while I moved from Vermont and transitioned to my new job, but I hope to bring them back this summer!




     FAITH: I shared this briefly in yesterday's post, but I found a new church home in Charlottesville! I did a little bit of church hopping for the first few weeks here, but after visiting one that was recommended by a coworker, I knew that I found a great church community here! I've already gotten involved with a small group through it, and also have had the chance to check out some service opportunities and get to know many of the other 20 and 30 somethings who attend. The worship and sermons at this church have really resonated with me, and I'm so excited to see what's to come with attending there for the rest of the year!
     As far as my personal faith, I feel like I am in such a great place. God has been so, so good to me in 2018 after a really rough past two years, and everyday I wake up now feeling so incredibly blessed! I know that probably sounds corny, but it is so true. He was with me in the low points, and now is still with me through a season of highs. This summer, I want to prioritize the relationships that I'm making at my new church, as well as getting involved with more faith-based service opportunities! Service with a huge part of my life in high school but I haven't prioritized it for the last couple years, and I'm ready to change that. I truly believe one of the best ways that Christians can share the Gospel message is through serving others in Jesus's name, and the local community is a great way to do that! 



     SOCIAL: Ah- building a social life in Virginia has been NIGHT AND DAY different than building one in Vermont at this time last year! Working to my advantage- I already knew a few people living in this area prior to when I moved. Aside from that, I've found it incredibly easy here to making friends and find things to do and get involved in- almost too many things? Culturally speaking for making friends, it's literally the opposite of Vermont. There are so many 20 somethings in Charlottesville! I assumed that most people my age here moved to this part of Virginia to attend UVA for undergrad. That's definitely true for some people (who just stayed after graduation), but there's also tons of guys and girls my age who moved to Charlottesville after college for their first or second jobs, or grad school! That means that I'm in the majority with people my age as far as being new to here, not a rare minority, like I always felt in Vermont.
     The blogging scene in Charlottesville itself isn't really too big (similar to Vermont in that regard) but DC has a huge blogging scene that I'm hoping to get more in tune with this summer and fall. Some of you might follow Alicia from Alicia Tenise- I've followed her blog for years, and her boyfriend happens to live in Charlottesville, so we have gotten to hang out when she is in town which has been so fun! 



     LOVE: This was always a category in my Post Move Update posts so I figured I'd keep it here... but not much to report. So true story- for years something that I'd been working on in my own relationship with God and my prayer life was for contentment in singleness. Y'all- I think it happened!! (I only wish this had happened earlier in my college years so I could have spent more time as happy as I am now, and less time stressed about not having a serious boyfriend at that time.) I have been so busy with my new job, blogging, and just enjoying my new life here in Virginia that to be honest- I haven't had much interest in dating since moving here. And it feels AMAZING!!!
     By all means- this isn't meaning that if I didn't meet the right type of guy that I wouldn't be opposed to going on a date. 😉It just means that for the first time in... well, ever, being single isn't something that's bothering me or that I'm really thinking about, and I'm definitely not actively seeking a relationship right now. (I deleted my dating apps months ago in Vermont, and don't see myself getting them back anytime soon!) 



     ACTIVITIES: One thing that I need to get back into a regular schedule here in Virginia is going to the gym / regular fitness. My former job in Vermont had a nice perk in that all employees received a membership to one of the nicest gyms in the Burlington area, and I tried to take full advantage of that, especially over this winter. I haven't gotten a gym membership here to save money (my new apartment complex has one), but for some reason I'm finding it much harder here to hold myself accountable to regular weekday gym time. At best I'm going once a week? I KNOW I need to step this up- so hopefully by the next time I write one of these posts I'll finally have a weekday gym routine down!
     My weekends however have been AMAZING since moving here! Literally- I haven't had a boring weekend since the move. Whether I'm here in Charlottesville, or the weekends that I've spent in DC or Richmond, every single one has been fun and memorable. Last weekend for example, I really didn't plan on doing anything. I had to work for a couple hours on Saturday, but other than that I planned to stay home and clean, and enjoy a few library books. I ended up barely being home at all- I received a few invitations to do things with new friends from church, and also went to a Kentucky Derby dinner party! It ended up being another amazing weekend.



     5 NEW VIRGINIA THINGS I DID:

  • Visited the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts in Richmond
  • Toured Monticello (Thomas Jefferson's House) in Charlottesville
  • Officially became a Virginia resident - it's finally DMV official! 
  • Visited my first four out of the 33 wineries on the Monticello Wine Trail (Afton Mountain, Pollak, Stinson and Veritas)
  • Hosted my first overnight guest in my new apartment - my mom! 



     Thank you so much for reading today's little life update! Hope that you enjoyed our virtual latte date- and I'm already looking forward to the next one in a couple months. 



     Enjoy your weekend! I'm going on my first hike in the area on Saturday with my boss and his wife and I'm really looking forward to it.



     God Bless,



      xoxo Annaliese 

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