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March 30, 2016

How to Run a Successful Blog While in College.




     Those of you who follow me on Snapchat (@miss_alk) might have seen the little spiel that I posted about upcoming blog content on Saturday night. With the next month bringing me little time to myself between final projects, papers and exams galore (including turning in my Capstone paper for my major!), Greek Week and other end of the year sorority commitments, Senior Week at school, and of course moving into my new apartment, I realized that I might not have as much time for planning and writing my weekly fashion posts in the coming weeks as I usually do. My goal is to still have 1-2 fashion posts a week on the blog during the month of April, but if things don't turn out exactly like that, I'm going to give myself grace! My final month of college will only come once in my life, and I know that the schoolwork and upcoming events that I have need to take priority. 

     But with this exciting transition phase in my life fast approaching, I have had lots of ideas for lifestyle post content for the blog! I shared some of these ideas on my Snapchat over the weekend, and it got great feedback from many of you. One of my post ideas was this one: sharing my tips and tricks for maintaining a successful blog while also being a full-time student. I started Southern Belle in Training on my 18th birthday, which was just two weeks after my freshman year of college began! Many aspects of my life have changed greatly since the start of my freshman year, but blogging is one thing that I've only increased my consistency in, and with that has come more and more success. I am certainly not the "biggest" blogger out there, and I will not lie to any of you and tell you that I have become successful enough to make blogging my full-time career at this point in my life (although that is a goal for someday!). However, I did file for taxes for 2015 income that I made off of my website, and that process made me realize that if I had started something in college and grown it large enough to file taxes on it, than I must have been fairly dedicated enough during my college years to keeping it going. So alas- the inspiration for this post! 

     Below are my best tips, tricks and suggestions after the past few years for how to successfully balance blogging and college:



Treat your blog as a job

     I've now been blogging for three and a half years on Southern Belle in Training, but I don't think that my website has really "taken off" until maybe the last year! That is because it wasn't until around this time last year (around the time that I rebranded) that I started thinking of my blog as my job, and not just a hobby that I did in my spare time. I realized that in order to keep my page views and followers consistent, I needed to have new content and posts on a regular basis, and work even harder to schedule that around school. Sometimes treating my blog as a job means that I get less sleep on a certain night when finishing a post, or pass up on certain social opportunities to catch up on other aspects of my blog. Blogging doesn't have to be a job that takes over your whole life, but it should be treated seriously, and doing that will pay off. For example, consistency in posting helped me greatly with sponsored post opportunities and collaborations with companies! 


Utilize a blog planner


 This is something that I only started doing this past year, but I wish I had started doing much earlier! Having an agenda for school each year helps greatly with writing down homework assignments and test dates, as well as other school activities such as work schedules, on-campus events, and sorority events. I use my blog planner very similarly, and pretty much for all aspects of of my blog! Each week I write down the posts that I have planned for that week, and I use various colored gel pens to differentiate which posts are my own content, and which are sponsored. I also keep a paper record in my blog planner of the income that I make each month through blogging. I mainly keep track of income on my computer, but it's always good to have a paper copy with back-up! And lastly, my planner is great for writing down ideas as they come to me throughout the week, and to remind myself of other things that I need to do for my blog, like special social media posts, emails I need to respond to, or which days I'm shooting on that week. I personally think that's very useful to have two separate agendas: one for school (or work), and one for your blog!


Don't be shy to recruit your friends

My blog's success over the past few years would not have been possible without the help of various friends! Many of my friends between both of my colleges have generously volunteered to help with the photography for Southern Belle in Training through the years, and without photographers, a fashion blog wouldn't be possible! Some of my friends have really taken a liking to helping with my blog photos, and it has been fun to watch their interest in photography grow with time. I also have friends who have come and supported my website in other ways, such as attending the first blogging event that I co-hosted last fall, or entering giveaways that I host here on my blog. If your real-life friends don't understand what your blog is or why you spend so much time on it, explain it to them! The more they know, the more they will understand, and probably want to get involved if they can! 


Set goals for yourself

I think that setting goals for growing your blog is an excellent way to motivate yourself to stay on track as a blogger, especially while in college! It can be easy sometimes to want to put blogging on the back burner of your life when schoolwork or personal commitments are overwhelming your time (which is so often the case in college), but if you have broader goals that you are reaching for, it will encourage you to stay consistent with your website. Be sure to make goals that get you excited about blogging! Whether they are increasing your Instagram followers, blogging 5x weekly for a month, attending a blogging conference, collaborating with your favorite brand, or finally getting into rewardStyle (my goal for 2+ years- which finally happened this past February!), anything is possible with hard work, patience, and confidence! 


Sometimes school does come first

Even though taking blogging seriously is important to have a successful blog, the truth is that when you're in college, you are a student first and foremost! That means that during some weeks (*cough cough* Midterms and Finals weeks, I'm looking at you especially), your blog will have to come second to schoolwork or school commitments. You only get once chance to do well each semester in college, and your grades count for life! No one wants to have a bad GPA because they spent all of their free time blogging. The same can be applied to bloggers who are out of college and have full time careers. There will always be busier weeks at work where sometimes your full-time job has to come first! You don't want to do poorly as an employee and lose employment because of your blog. 
There is a solution for this though: and it's preparing content in advance for the crazy weeks of the semester! I actually have one coming up next week, as it's Greek Week at my school, plus Spring Initiation week for my sorority! I also know that I have a lot of school assignments due. This week I am planning to pre-write at least two blog posts for next week, because I know that if I don't do them well in advance, my blog won't have new content next week! So it's very important to know the flow of your schedule, and to plan ahead for busy times. 



     Those are my best five tips for managing a blog while being in school! Do any of your fellow collegiate bloggers (or bloggers who started their blogs while in college) have any tips that I missed? Do share!


     xoxo Miss ALK
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March 29, 2016

Spring Date Night Look.









Top: Dillard's // Jeans: American Eagle Outfitters // Shoes: TJ Maxx {similar here!} // Clutch: Towne & Reese // Earrings: Charming Charlie {old, similar found here} // Bracelets: c/o Taudrey // Lips: Almay SmartShade Butter Kiss Lipstick in Pink Light/Medium 



     I am absolutely obsessed with this gorgeous pink top, and I have been so excited to feature it on the blog! It is lightweight and perfect for spring, yet lined enough that it isn't see-through. Sadly these photos don't even do the gorgeous neon color of it much justice, it is truly such a bright shade of pink that even my camera and the beautiful morning light couldn't accurately capture it! 

     I think that this outfit would be absolutely perfect for a spring date night. The top and earrings add a fun dressy touch, but pairing them with skinny jeans adds a touch of casual elegance to the look. I would definitely wear this outfit on a dinner (or dessert) date. The truth though is that I'm currently very single and not dating anyone (I deleted my profiles from the dating apps that I was on over the winter), so y'all who have boyfriends will have to copy this look for date nights and I can live vicariously through you! Haha. :-) 


     I hope that everyone's week is off to a great start! The past two weeks, I have been up very late on Sunday nights finishing large assignments for my Monday class, so that's why Monday's posts have been pushed to Tuesdays lately! Goodness, I am getting so excited to be done with school in just over a month.

     Stay tuned tomorrow for a fun post that's different from my usual Midweek Ramblings + Recent Purchases posts!






     
     xoxo Miss ALK






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March 25, 2016

Best Easter Sales + Current Wishlist.




 
     "It's the most wonderful time of the year!" I really think that people should sing this song for Easter instead of Christmas! Easter is my absolute favorite holiday, and for many reasons. First and foremost because of the religious significance, just think, the Christian faith wouldn't exist without it! But I also love because of the bunnies (my favorite animal), the beautiful and bright colors, getting to dress up extra special for church, the foods, the spring weather, and pretty much anything else associated with it! It is just my favorite time of year, through and through. Anyone else with me? (The above photo is my mom's table settings for Easter dinner at my house last year! I have gone home for Easter during my freshman and junior years of college, but am staying at school this year.)


     Like most holidays in America, Easter also means a time for sales in the retail world! This weekend is bringing some good ones to some of my favorite stores. I spent this week scouring the web and trying to find the best deals at my favorite retailers. Here are what I think are some of the best sales of the weekend, for any of you who have been bitten by the shopping bug as of late!


Ann Taylor - 40% almost everything online, using code MARCH40. Ends 3/28.

Charlotte Russe - Entire store up to 50% off in-store and online, no code. Ends 3/27. (For all of my college girls- this is a great time to stock up on more casual clothes/sandals/heels for nights out! CR is one of my go-to stores for this type of apparel.) 

Forever 21 - Buy two sale items online, save an extra 20% using code SALE20, (same discount for three and four sale items online except for 30% and 40% off, with codes SALE30 and SALE40). Ends 3/27.

J. Crew Factory - 50% off everything in-store and online, no code. Online-only, use code EGGSCELLENT for an extra 40% off all clearance. Ends 3/27.

Kate Spade - Extra 25% off all sale items online with code HOPTOIT. Ends 3/28. (I bought my favorite wallet ever through a promotion similar to this a couple of years ago- so I would definitely recommend seeing what Kate Spade already has in their sale section!)

Lilly Pulitzer - Free gift with purchases in-store and online (gifts with purchases of $150 and $300). Ends 3/27.

LOFT - 30% off almost everything online, no code. Ends 3/28.

Nordstrom - This one isn't a "sale" per say, but this is a Triple Points weekend for all cardholders shopping at Nordstrom! I personally am not a Nordstrom cardholder, but if you are, this is a great time to do some shopping! Triple Points ends on 3/26.


     Below some of my current wishlist favorites are linked! The first three items are all on sale for $20- how can you beat that?!







     Wishing all of you a peaceful and joy-filled Easter weekend with family and friends! The majority of my weekend is going to be working on papers for my Capstone and Senior Ethics classes, but I am still excited to go to church this weekend, and to have Easter lunch with my friend Caroline's family on Sunday!


     xoxo Miss ALK
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March 23, 2016

Midweek Ramblings + Recent Purchases.


{Photo credit: Morgan from How 2 Wear It. Be sure to follow me on Instagram and Snapchat @miss_alk!}



Ramblings: 
  • Blogger meet-up fun: The picture above shows how much fun I had this past Saturday at the March meet-up for North Carolina's region of the InfluenceHer Blogger Network (formally known as the Her Campus Blogger Network)! I am the regional chair for IHC North Carolina, so I get to plan meet-ups every couple of months for the wonderful bloggers in my area! This month we met at the Charlotte Premium Outlets, which is a fairly new outlet shopping center on the outskirts of the city. I had actually never been over to the outlets before, and I was amazed at how nice they were! But the best part of the afternoon was definitely getting to be in the company of some other great bloggers. Despite being a wide array of ages, everyone got along perfectly, and we enjoyed talking all about blogging collaborations, photoshoot fails, and of course sharing lots of stories about the strange emails that we receive from time to time as bloggers! If you are a Charlotte or NC blogger and would like to join the InfluenceHer Blogger Network and be included in my future meet-up plans, click here to apply to join IHC, and then send me an email at rainbowflash94@yahoo.com
  • Apartment life: I mentioned in a recent MR + RP post that my friend Ciera and I (she is my roommate for post-grade life) found our apartment recently! The apartment hunting process went more smoothly then we thought it would, and we love our new place. We were offered a great rent special for the weeks before I graduate, and since Ciera graduated college in December, she has already moved in! I went over the visit last night and to see how she is settling in. I am getting SO excited to get to officially move in after I graduate, it really couldn't come sooner! I'm trying to make the most of my last six weeks of college... but with all of the work and commitments that I have, it's hard to enjoy everything! Also: if y'all have any great apartment design Pinterest boards, please leave a comment with the link!!
  • Orlando vacation recap: Be sure to check out this post from last week if you haven't yet! It's a full recap of my last Spring Break, which was spent in Orlando and Disney! I want to start bringing more travel content to this blog in the months and years to come, so I hope that y'all enjoyed the format of this post. :-) 
  • Two giveaways: Just a reminder that I have two giveaways going on right now! One is in yesterday's blog post, and one is running on my Instagram through tonight! 
  • Dancing groomsmen: Here's my funny web find of the week: do any of you remember the viral wedding dance video that the internet went crazy over several years ago? (I think it was when I was in 9th or 10th grade maybe?) It featured a couple and their bridal party dancing down the aisle to Forever by Chris Brown. I used to be obsessed with that video back in the day! Anyways, this fun wedding reception dance video has recently gone viral, and it features some groomsmen that definitely have moves! I love when they break out into the *NSYNC dance. 


Purchases:
  • I did very well at the LOFT outlet when I visited the Charlotte Premium Outlets on Saturday! I actually prefer LOFT outlets to their regular mall stores. I always find the best deals at their outlets! The first thing that I purchased was the most darling white blouse. I have a patterned and very bright summer skirt that I've been needing a simple top to style with, and thanks to LOFT I finally found the right type of top! The exact top that I purchased isn't online, but this one is super similar, and I think it's actually prettier than the one that I took home, haha! (And this one is on sale online right now too! Win!)
  • I also found a super cute fitted dress jacket at LOFT. Not only is is a perfect business casual piece, but it is made of the comfiest fabric. And in-store it was on sale for under $40! Sadly again this piece isn't online, but this very similar jacket is online here!



       Hope that everyone is having a great week!



      xoxo Miss ALK


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March 22, 2016

Styling Dainty Jewelry.









Top: Forever 21 {old, very similar here} // Skirt: Abercrombie & Fitch {almost identical here!} // Shoes: The Walking Company {very similar here} // Jacket: Forever 21 // Purse: Forever 21 // Necklace: c/o Nava New York // Rings: c/o Nava New York // Nails: CoverGirl Outlast Stay Brilliant Nail Polish in SkyLight {old color, similar color here} // Lips: Revlon Super Lustrous Lipstick in Demure 



     In the past, I have been all about jewelry that is big and bold (and sparkly and shimmery!). My jewelry collection shows that I tend to favor statement necklaces, colorful bracelets, and embellished earrings. But recently, I have been starting to add daintier and more delicate pieces into my jewelry rotation. While I think that "louder" jewelry pieces absolutely have their place and purpose in every girl's wardrobe, it can be nice to have some more understated pieces as well. 

     I was so excited when Nava New York sent me two gorgeous items from their beautiful jewelry collection to style! One was the adorable custom bar necklace, which they customized for me on both sides! One side has a bow on it (to represent my blog's logo), the other side says MISS ALK, which is my Instagram name, and also how I sign my blog posts (read this post to learn why I sign all of my posts under this name if you don't know! :-) ). I absolutely adore this sweet little necklace because 1.) it is easy to pair it with so many different outfits, and 2.) I love the thoughtfulness that the team behind Nava New York put into designing it for me! 

      Nava New York specializes in making unique and dainty jewelry for women in Panhellenic sororities. They also sent me one of their darling Alpha Delta Pi rings, and I am obsessed! I have been wearing it non-stop since receiving it. My time as an active collegiate member in ADPi will come to a conclusion in just under a month, so this ring will be perfect for me to take with me from the transition into becoming an alumni member in my sorority. 


     Nava New York has been so kind as to sponsor a giveaway for y'all here on Southern Belle in Training! One lucky reader will receive the same dainty gold twist ring that I am wearing in this post! My ring is of course for Alpha Delta Pi, but Nava New York is a licensed Greek vendor that can make jewelry for all 26 Panhellenic sororities, so you can have the ring made in the letters of whichever Panhellenic organization you belong to! This would also make a fantastic gift for your Big or Little, or a friend who is in a sorority. This giveaway will run through Wednesday, March 30th, 2016


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     Similar items to what I'm wearing in this post are linked below!



 

      Today's post is sponsored by Nava New York. Thank-you for supporting the brands that support Southern Belle in Training!


      xoxo Miss ALK
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